Everybody asked me on my birthday " How are you going to celebrate tonight ? " , " So what's the plan tonight ? " , Where are you heading for big feast ? "
But my answer is just " HOME " and people think it’s a lil impractical. Well , it’s no biggies kay … and I don’t think it’s pathetic to celebrate it at home. Birthday has been nothing to me since last few years but somehow, in my perception, the best birthday is when you can celebrate with someone who is really close to you. For few years consecutively, mum has not celebrated my birthday with me because she’d been traveling on my birthday but this year, I’m the one who’s not around but still I received her greetings and also from most of my friends through facebook , texts and calls. I can feel the warmth :D
Sometimes, memories are good. I recalled my birthday last year, it was indeed a good birthday for me and I’ve stored it as one of the best moments in my life but we can’t turn back time and shall not look backward. Those are memories, something for you to keep in mind but not to be sad when thinking of :)
This year’s birthday is great too ! I’ve a bunch of colleagues trying to surprise me but I’m smart enough to know it’s a surprise and also two girlfriends celebrated for me at home. I don’t really fancy sweet stuffs but I saw the effort. Thanks for the truffles and raspberry cake. Thanks peeps for making it happen.
I’ve make a wish but not revealing it. Call me a superstitious freak but I still believe when wishes are revealed, it will somehow do not come true ;9
biibuu ♥
October 30, 2010
October 27, 2010
Something that I've missed
I realized I like things to be done fast, maybe because I prefer efficiency. I used to rush my work as if it’s meeting it’s deadline, used to walk very fast, even if I’m not in a rush but this morning, as I went out after the rain stops, the ground is so wet that I can’t get to move fast, I walk slowly and I realized the sky is so blue and I guess this is what I missed every morning. It’s so refreshing walking all the way to the MRT and I heart the morning. If the sky allows me, guess I’ll be going to jog with the girls on weekends as it’s not hazy anymore.
As usual, I’ve been dealing with lotsa CAFs, BAs and AFs and I spend every hour in the office working and it actually fill up my day although sometimes it tires me at the end of the day, I still feel satisfy. I’ve somehow forgotten until my colleague reminds me that it’s my birthday tomorrow. Well well .. it’s my twenty-second tomorrow.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME !
I’m going to revised my wishlist again ;)
biibuu ♥
As usual, I’ve been dealing with lotsa CAFs, BAs and AFs and I spend every hour in the office working and it actually fill up my day although sometimes it tires me at the end of the day, I still feel satisfy. I’ve somehow forgotten until my colleague reminds me that it’s my birthday tomorrow. Well well .. it’s my twenty-second tomorrow.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME !
I’m going to revised my wishlist again ;)
biibuu ♥
October 21, 2010
I was a lil slow
Ever wonder how's the feeling of being assaulted eespecially by someone who used to be very close to you? To me, it’s like fcking mixed up but one thing that I force myself to keep in mind is I've to be impartial with whatever that person says is true or bogus. Just go ahead judge whatever shits you want.
I’m being myself, looking ahead, trying to notice my dreadful traits and ditch them. I’ve see a short path of my way and still looking for a better way. Regardless of what life throws on my way, a positive outlook on life will get definitely gets me further.
I’ve really moved on because I can’t be staying there, yearning for something that is impracticable to happen. I hate disappointments and you do it the best but thanks anyway.
biibuu ♥
I’m being myself, looking ahead, trying to notice my dreadful traits and ditch them. I’ve see a short path of my way and still looking for a better way. Regardless of what life throws on my way, a positive outlook on life will get definitely gets me further.
I’ve really moved on because I can’t be staying there, yearning for something that is impracticable to happen. I hate disappointments and you do it the best but thanks anyway.
biibuu ♥
October 19, 2010
I've received my pay !
It was like ... FINALLY ... phewwww !
Although it's just a few hundred dollars but that's what I earned on my own ... but fortunately still get some sponsor from someone. Thanks for fulfilling my needs and the good food that you’ve spent me :D Wondering how could I survive without those extras?
Has been very busy lately. My life now is about BA, CAF and WO. Although they're sort of troublesome, but I've fall in love doing it. At least, I’ve something to do to keep me from doing nothing or else I’ll be playing Sudoku or reading that somehow makes me sleepy.
I miss doing Yoga but I can’t make it because classes here clashes with my working time. Because of having too many good food, I’ve really put on kilos. It’s time to reduce but but but but I'll be getting another treat of Japanese buffet soon ... ahhhhhh … fck the diet plan , let’s eat :D
biibuu ♥
Although it's just a few hundred dollars but that's what I earned on my own ... but fortunately still get some sponsor from someone. Thanks for fulfilling my needs and the good food that you’ve spent me :D Wondering how could I survive without those extras?
Has been very busy lately. My life now is about BA, CAF and WO. Although they're sort of troublesome, but I've fall in love doing it. At least, I’ve something to do to keep me from doing nothing or else I’ll be playing Sudoku or reading that somehow makes me sleepy.
I miss doing Yoga but I can’t make it because classes here clashes with my working time. Because of having too many good food, I’ve really put on kilos. It’s time to reduce but but but but I'll be getting another treat of Japanese buffet soon ... ahhhhhh … fck the diet plan , let’s eat :D
biibuu ♥
October 09, 2010
UNDERSTANDING MEN !
After reading this, you would have realized, we are all the same, it's just that man always wanna act strong and don't admit that they're just like woman :D
1. Men have needs just like you do
Women are often considered the needier sex, but guys are have their emotional needs, too, according to Huemer and Winas. They may not readily admit it, but "men need respect, praise, interest in what they do, support, encouragement, collaboration, understanding, love, time alone, etc., etc."
2. Men need respect
Find a woman who disrepects her guy, and you'll find a man who's halfway out the door. "A man is going to find respect somewhere," say Huemer and Winas. "If she doesn't give it to him, then he is going to find it someplace else."
3. Men need praise
What's the best way to get a man to please you, whether around the house or in bed? Give his self-esteem a boost. "Men constantly need to be reminded about how great they are," say Huemer and Winas. "If you ask him to do the dishes and he doesn't do them perfectly then appreciate the fact that he actually did them, even if it is not to your exact specifications. Nagging him about how inefficient he is and how you would have done a much better job is not in your best interest."
4. Men need you to be interested in what they do
Men want to be around women who care about what they love (his job, his hobby, whatever). "You don't have to live and breathe his interests," say Huemer and Winas, "but you should understand them enough to comment." For instance, ask about his day at the office when he gets home, show your excitement for his achievements at work. If he's had a stressful day, hear him out -- you don't even have to give advice. Most of the time, he just needs a listening ear.
5. Men need support and encouragement
"If you support him, he will support you," say Huemer and Winas. When he asks you do help, do the things you can to support him. "If you encourage him with his goals and dreams, he will be a better man for it."
6. Men need collaboration
In other words, men don't want to be told what to do or how to do it. "The best thing that you can do is manipulate him into thinking that he came up with the idea," say Huemer and Winas. He likes a relationship where you work together as a team, not a relationship where you're wearing the pants.
7. Men need understanding
Men may seem to be from Mars sometimes, but they really want to be understood. "When he takes the time to actually talk to you, don't blow it off or ignore it, just listen," say Huemer and Winas. Great communication between couples is key to connecting on a deeper, stronger level.
8. Men need love (and yes, that does include sex)
We all know sex is important to a man, but "love is not just sex," say Huemer and Winas. "Love is a look, a touch, a kiss, and stroking his ego." When you are attentive to his needs, he will be more willing to pay attention to yours.
9. Men need time alone
He needs a chance to explore a hobby, hang with the guys and unwind. "Allow and encourage him to do what he does to recharge" suggest Huemer and Winas. "If you do this, the time you spend with him will be even better." Of course, if time alone includes an addiction to porn, fantasy football and video games, you may want to reconsider your choice of man.
10. Men need your attention
You may think they're not very observant, but men pay attention to how their women address their needs, because as mentioned in the first point: Men are needy.
1. Men have needs just like you do
Women are often considered the needier sex, but guys are have their emotional needs, too, according to Huemer and Winas. They may not readily admit it, but "men need respect, praise, interest in what they do, support, encouragement, collaboration, understanding, love, time alone, etc., etc."
2. Men need respect
Find a woman who disrepects her guy, and you'll find a man who's halfway out the door. "A man is going to find respect somewhere," say Huemer and Winas. "If she doesn't give it to him, then he is going to find it someplace else."
3. Men need praise
What's the best way to get a man to please you, whether around the house or in bed? Give his self-esteem a boost. "Men constantly need to be reminded about how great they are," say Huemer and Winas. "If you ask him to do the dishes and he doesn't do them perfectly then appreciate the fact that he actually did them, even if it is not to your exact specifications. Nagging him about how inefficient he is and how you would have done a much better job is not in your best interest."
4. Men need you to be interested in what they do
Men want to be around women who care about what they love (his job, his hobby, whatever). "You don't have to live and breathe his interests," say Huemer and Winas, "but you should understand them enough to comment." For instance, ask about his day at the office when he gets home, show your excitement for his achievements at work. If he's had a stressful day, hear him out -- you don't even have to give advice. Most of the time, he just needs a listening ear.
5. Men need support and encouragement
"If you support him, he will support you," say Huemer and Winas. When he asks you do help, do the things you can to support him. "If you encourage him with his goals and dreams, he will be a better man for it."
6. Men need collaboration
In other words, men don't want to be told what to do or how to do it. "The best thing that you can do is manipulate him into thinking that he came up with the idea," say Huemer and Winas. He likes a relationship where you work together as a team, not a relationship where you're wearing the pants.
7. Men need understanding
Men may seem to be from Mars sometimes, but they really want to be understood. "When he takes the time to actually talk to you, don't blow it off or ignore it, just listen," say Huemer and Winas. Great communication between couples is key to connecting on a deeper, stronger level.
8. Men need love (and yes, that does include sex)
We all know sex is important to a man, but "love is not just sex," say Huemer and Winas. "Love is a look, a touch, a kiss, and stroking his ego." When you are attentive to his needs, he will be more willing to pay attention to yours.
9. Men need time alone
He needs a chance to explore a hobby, hang with the guys and unwind. "Allow and encourage him to do what he does to recharge" suggest Huemer and Winas. "If you do this, the time you spend with him will be even better." Of course, if time alone includes an addiction to porn, fantasy football and video games, you may want to reconsider your choice of man.
10. Men need your attention
You may think they're not very observant, but men pay attention to how their women address their needs, because as mentioned in the first point: Men are needy.
October 01, 2010
I don't enjoy working life .
It's the forth week already! Time flies just like the speed of light. Counting down, 12 more weeks left for my intern. I’m longing for that very day to arrive. Life here is hectic and crazy ! As I’ve mentioned in my earlier blogs, I’ve to wake up early in the morning to prepare and head to work. I’ve adapted but I’m just too tired. I’ve a good supervisor but maybe he’s too smart, I’m a lil stressed for being a slow learner and I realized I’m actually not prepared for working life and so I don’t enjoy it at all !
Working just for a few weeks has eventually altered my perception. I realized that money and love don’t always come together. Why ? Because it’s hard for you to love someone without money but sometimes you find yourself don’t really love that person but it’s the money that you love ?
From what I read in most of the magazines here, girls here are smart asses. FREAKING SMART ! Most of the working ladies who dressed smartly are usually seen around shopping alone. Reasons ? They don’t have a boyfriend to shop with because they only go for guys who are earns more than them, more educated than them and preferably, owns a car.
How I wish I could learn to be like them … love money more than a person !
biibuu ♥
Working just for a few weeks has eventually altered my perception. I realized that money and love don’t always come together. Why ? Because it’s hard for you to love someone without money but sometimes you find yourself don’t really love that person but it’s the money that you love ?
From what I read in most of the magazines here, girls here are smart asses. FREAKING SMART ! Most of the working ladies who dressed smartly are usually seen around shopping alone. Reasons ? They don’t have a boyfriend to shop with because they only go for guys who are earns more than them, more educated than them and preferably, owns a car.
How I wish I could learn to be like them … love money more than a person !
biibuu ♥
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